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This Is What It's Like To Be Financially Dependent On Your Partner
No one likes asking for money, but for some people, it's a reality of life. Whether it be debts, career setbacks or medical conditions, sometimes married people find themselves financially dependent on their partners, and it's not always pretty. Read more about their struggles below.

The worst feeling.

1
I'm pregnant and financially dependent on my fiancé, but I just discovered he may be cheating. I feel so helpless.

So hard.

2
I feel like my husband is emotionally abusive. It makes me want to leave but I'm financially dependant on him

The good ole' days.

3
I hate that I depend solely on my husband for money. I miss the days I was financially independent.

Ug.

4
I've lived my last 8 years supporting my husbands business. Im stuck being financially dependent on him

This sounds so difficult.

5
I wish I wasn't so Financially dependent on my husband so walking away from this toxic marriage would be so much easier

Sad.

6
I wish I could divorce my husband but I am financially dependant on him thanks to medical problems.

Wow. When you can't even turn to your family....

7
I want to leave my husband but I'm afraid because Im a stay at home mom and depend financially on him. Plus we have 2 kids together and I'm afraid what my family will say if I leave him.

: /

8
My financial dependence on my husband makes me resentful and him Controlling

Where would she go?

9
I am a stay at home girlfriend. I live in the middle of nowhere. My life revolves around my boyfriend. I am completely dependent on him financially. 
I am scared of what would happen 
If we  broke up.

Drugs make it so much worse...

10
After our son was born he started using heavily again. My baby's dad is there but he still fatherless. It's hard to leave bc I'm financially dependent. I feel stuck. Thanks for reading this vent.

At least it's working for now!

11
Constantly worried I'm not going to find a good job and will have to close out my 401k. I hate being financially dependent on my fiancé. He's ok with it but it gives me so much anxiety.

Those loose ends...

12
It was hard breaking up with him despite having fallen out of love, because we live together and I am financially dependent on him.

Tricky...

13
I know my husband cheated on me. But I am so dependent on him that I can't divorce him. 

No wonder he always wanted me to be a housewife.

At least she has an education.

14
I have a bachelors degree in sociology and a masters degree in education and can't find a job to save my life. I hate being dependent on my husband. Life shouldn't be this hard.

Maybe she's mistaken?

15
I know deep down my husband doesn't love me. I'm too dependent to face it.

Scary.

16
my husband left me today. I am so scared of being a single mom. I was a stay at home mom. completely dependent on him.. now I don't know what I am going to do. I am terrified.

Claps for the independent ladies!

17
My husband has been the sole bread winner for our whole relationship. I'm very dependent on him. Which is bittersweet. I'm trying to get self sufficient. I commend all independent ladies for that

Forever doesn't always mean forever.

18
I have no money no job, a three year old and pregnant with my second and my husband has left me for someone else. He promised me forever. I fell for it. 
I learned to never depend on a man ever again.

No more questions please!

19
I'm a stay at home mom, I cannot wait until #3 is old enough for school so I can finally go back to work. I hate depending on my husbands money and being interrogated about spending it.

Could do without the judgement.

20
I hate asking my husband for money. Even though he never says it, I wonder if he judges my spending habits.

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