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Relationship Tell All: I'm My Partner's Second Choice
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Comparing yourself to others is a recipe for disaster.

I look at my boyfriend's ex girlfriend's Facebook and get upset because I am not as pretty or as skinny as she it. She's perfect. I'm just his second choice..

Did he move on or...?

I'm afraid I'm my boyfriend's second choice. The girl he loved doesn't love him.

It's no big deal.

I know that I am my girlfriend's second choice, but I love her and if being with her means I'm her second choice, then I don't care.

Just one hit after the next.

I was my ex's second choice... Just found out I am my boyfriend's third choice... I know it shouldn't matter anymore, but it still hurts to know that I will always be the backup plan.

It's hard not to let it get to you.

I'm my boyfriend's second choice and it kills me.

Moving past it isn't easy.

I can't get over the fact that I'm my boyfriend's second choice.